'Speak roughly to your little boy'? Sex Differences in the Relations Between Parenting and Preschoolers' Understanding of Mind

In: Social development, Band 8, Heft 2, S. 143-160

Abstract

The present study explores relations between young children's understanding of mind and parental emotional expression and disciplinary style, along with gender differences in these relations. Participants were recruited from a study of 125 same‐sex twin‐pairs (58% female; group mean age 5 43 months, SD 5 1 month). Each child received a comprehensive set of theory‐of‐mind tasks, and was filmed at home for 20 minutes in dyadic interactions with the primary caregiver, who was also interviewed about disciplinary strategies. Ratings of discipline and positive and negative parental affect and control were made from direct observation, from the interview, and from the videoed interactions. Strong correlations were found between family SES, parenting measures, and child verbal IQ and theory‐of‐mind score. However, regression analyses showed that parental behaviours were significant predictors of children's theory‐of‐mind performance, even when sex, verbal IQ and family SES were taken into account. Sex differences in these relations were also identified; parental affect was especially salient for understanding of mind in girls, while discipline was more salient for boys. Taken together, these findings highlight the importance of individual differences in the proximal processes associated with early understanding of mind, and suggest that development in mental‐state awareness is associated with distinct aspects of parenting for girls and boys.