Monogamy, Nonmonogamy, and Identity

In: Hypatia: a journal of feminist philosophy, Volume 13, Issue 4, p. 1-17

Abstract

After a brief discussion of the terms "monogamy" and "nonmonogamy," I evaluate explanations offered by different theorists for the pain that nonmonogamy can cause to the partner (especially a female partner) of a nonmonogamous person (of either sex). My suggestion is that the self, especially the female self, is convention' ally defined in terms of sexual partners. I present and reply to a possible objection to this explanation, and then discuss my theory's normative implications.