The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce
Intro -- Title Page -- Dedication -- Introduction -- Part One: Getting Started -- Chapter 1: What Is Nesting? -- Nesting, Explained -- What Does Nesting Look Like in Real Life? -- The Goals of Nesting -- The Benefits of Nesting -- Key Points to Remember -- Chapter 2: Is Nesting Right for Your Family? -- Assessing Your Ability to Co-Parent Questionnaire -- Issues to Consider Before Nesting -- Your Home Away from Home: Potential Living Arrangements -- Financial Factors -- Dating and New Relationships -- How Long Should Nesting Last? -- Nesting Deal Breakers -- Making a Decision -- Key Points to Remember -- Chapter 3: Developing a Co-Parenting Plan -- Managing Different Co-Parenting Styles -- The Mission Statement -- Scheduling Time with the Children -- Logistics Related to Your Children's Care -- New Relationships -- How to Handle Disagreements That Arise -- Parenting Plan Worksheet -- Key Points to Remember -- Chapter 4: Nesting and Finances -- Honesty and Full Disclosure -- Getting Up to Speed with Your Finances -- Why Budgets Are Important -- How to Make a Budget -- Sample Budgets -- Budgeting Template -- Getting by with Less -- Determining Your Nesting Housing Situation Using Your Budget -- Incorporating Your Budget Into Your Nesting Agreement -- Review Your Financial Situation Periodically -- Future Expenses -- Key Points to Remember -- Chapter 5: Creating a Nesting Agreement That Works -- Using Your Co-Parenting Plan As a Foundation for Nesting -- Little Details Can Make a Big Difference -- Be Patient with Each Other -- Making Nesting Successful via Trust -- Focus On What Matters to Each of You -- Create Your Personalized Nesting Agreement -- The Ready-to-Nest Pledge -- Key Points to Remember -- Part Two: Implementing Your Nesting Plan -- Chapter 6: Talking to Your Kids (and Others) about Nesting -- Use Reassuring Language.