You and Your Adult Child: How to Grow Together in Challenging Times
Intro -- Title Page -- Dedication -- Introduction -- Chapter 1: Your Evolving Role as a Parent -- Times Have Changed -- Your Role Has Changed -- Adjusting Your Expectations -- Respecting Your Child's Autonomy -- "When I Was Your Age" -- Chapter 2: Growing Together -- To Bite, or Not to Bite -- Handling Your Own Unpleasant Emotions -- Resolving Disputes Constructively -- When You and Your Partner Disagree -- Chapter 3: Mental Health -- Young Adulthood Is a Vulnerable Period -- Common Mental Health Problems -- Getting Help -- Taking Care of Yourself -- Estrangement -- Chapter 4: Education -- Is College Worth It? -- Appropriate Involvement in Your Child's College Education -- Alternatives to Traditional College -- Visits Home from College -- Chapter 5: Finances -- Providing Financial Support -- Purse Strings -- Helping with a Home Purchase -- Discussing Your Personal Finances -- Chapter 6: Romance and Marriage -- Your Child's Sexuality -- Your Child's Choice of a Partner -- The Member of the Wedding -- How Your Child's Intimate Relationship May Change Your Relationship with Them -- Getting Along with Your Child's Partner -- Helping Your Child Handle Conflicts with Their Partner -- Chapter 7: Flourishing or Floundering? -- Is My Child Floundering? -- The Perpetual Student -- Uncertainty About a Career -- Still Single (After All These Years) -- When Your Child Moves Back Home -- Chapter 8: Grandparenthood -- How to Help the New Parents -- Giving Advice About Your Child's Parenting -- You and Your Grandchild -- Chapter 9: Summing Up and Looking Ahead -- Acknowledgments -- About the Author -- Notes -- Index -- Copyright.